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Have you ever wondered how great leaders become great? Or what is the “secret sauce” they have that makes them stand-out and command both the attention and respect of thousands, no, millions of followers? What is it that great business leaders have that creates the Midas touch and turns everything into gold?
Join us for the next ten minutes as we share the secrets of how great leaders inspire everyone to take action and with the help of Simon Sinek understand why we should Start with WHY.
Lesson 1: Inspirational Carrots
Despite the multiple ways in which we can communicate with one another, there are effectively only two ways to influence human behaviour: you can manipulate it or you can inspire it.
When we look at the number of different incentives offered to us as consumers (i.e. price drops, special short term promotions, using fear as a trigger, peer pressure, aspirational messages, etc.), they all typically point to some form of manipulation. We are put under some form of stress to make a quick decision for the benefit of the vendor. This happens everywhere, be it a purchase, a vote or support.
By contrast, great leaders are able to create a following of people who act not because they were manipulated, but simply because they were inspired. For those who are inspired, the motivation to act is deeply personal. They are less likely to be swayed by incentives so no need for parallel manipulations. Those who are inspired are willing to pay a premium, endure inconvenience or even personal suffering (i.e. queuing in the rain for the latest gizmo or gadget).
Those who are able to inspire will create a following of people—supporters, voters, customers, workers—who act for the good of the whole not because they have to, but because they want to.
So forget the manipulative stick, let’s stick to the inspirational carrot.
Lesson 2: Three little words – What, How, and Why
Every single company and organisation on the planet knows WHAT they do. WHATs are easy to identify. These are the things our job specifications, our product designs and our meetings all focus on. They are tangible.

At a more detailed level, some companies and people know HOW they do WHAT they do. HOWs are often given to explain how something is different or better.
Very few people or companies can clearly articulate WHY they do WHAT they do: WHY does your company exist? WHY do you get out of bed every morning? And WHY should anyone care? WHYs are intangible.
Since focussing on the WHATs and HOWs is easier, most businesses use language associated with WHAT’s and HOW’s to promote their products and services.
Lets consider Apple. If Apple were like most companies, using WHATs and HOWs, their marketing message may sound something like this:
“We make great computers. They’re beautifully designed, simple to use and user friendly – want to buy one?”
But that is not what Apple does, and this is not what inspiring leaders and organisations do either. Every one of them, regardless of size or industry, starts with a WHY.
Let’s look at that Apple example again and rewrite the example in the order Apple actually communicates – the WHY way:
“Everything we do, we believe in challenging the status quo. We believe in thinking differently. The way we challenge the status quo is by making our products beautifully designed, simple to use and user friendly – want to buy one?”
Notice the difference? It’s a completely different message.
Apple doesn’t simply reverse the order of the WHAT information. Their message starts with WHY, a purpose, cause or belief that has nothing to do with WHAT they do. WHAT they do—the products they make, from computers to small electronics—no longer serves as the reason to buy, they serve as the tangible proof of their cause.
People don’t buy WHAT you do, they buy WHY you do it.
Lesson 3: De-Fuzzing Why

If a customer feels inspired to buy a product, rather than feeling manipulated, they will be able to verbalise the reasons why they think what they bought is better than its alternatives. In reality, their purchase decision and their loyalty are deeply personal.
So what should a company do?
Instead of asking, “WHAT should we do to compete?” the questions must be asked, “WHY did we start doing WHAT we’re doing in the first place, and WHAT can we do to bring our cause to life?”Â

Looking again at Apple, if you consider their advertising and communications, products, partnerships, packaging and even their store design, they are all WHATs to Apple’s WHY. They are proof that they actively challenge status quo thinking to empower the individual.
If you look at Apple’s advertising for example, they never show groups enjoying their products? It’s always individuals. Their “Think Different” campaign depicted individuals who thought differently, never groups. Always individuals. This is no accident. Empowering the individual spirit is WHY Apple exists.
Looking at other computer manufacturers such as HP and Dell for example, and we can see they have a fuzzy sense of WHY. Their products and their brands don’t symbolise anything about the users. To the Dell or HP user, their computer, no matter how fast or sleek, is not a symbol of a higher purpose, cause or belief. It’s just a computer.Â
Are your WHYs fuzzy?
Lesson 4: Followers choose to follow
In the summer of 1963, a quarter of a million people showed up in front of the Lincoln memorial in Washington, D.C., to hear Martin Luther King Jr. deliver his “I Have a Dream” speech. But how many people showed up for Dr. King? Very few. Why? Because they showed up for themselves.
Martin Luther King Jr., had identified a WHY that others took up as their own. A WHY that included a vision, values and beliefs that matched their own. It was an alignment of intangibles. People followed him not because of his idea of a changed America. People followed him because of their idea of a changed America. Dr. King offered America a place to go, not a plan to follow.
Ernest Shakleton, a renowned and inspirational leader who never achieved what he set out to do – get to the South Pole – demonstrated the same skills. When Shackleton appealed for a crew to join him on his fateful expedition he did not define a list of appropriate skills. He identified a WHY of his own and sought followers.
The advertisement forhis expedition read:
“Men wanted for hazardous journey. Small wages, bitter cold, long months of complete darkness, constant danger, safe return doubtful. Honour and recognition in case of success.”
Shackleton hired only people who believed what he believed because when people believe, they belong. And, in business, when employees belong, they will guarantee your success.
Lesson 5: Followers need to belong
The Sneetches in Dr. Seuss’ famous picture book, star-bellied or otherwise, perfectly capture a very basic human need – the need to belong. Their desire to be part of the bigger group had them embellishing their bodies with a common marque. Similarly, our need to belong is not rational, but it is a constant that exists across all people in all cultures. It is a feeling we get when those around us share our values and beliefs. When we feel like we belong, we feel connected and we feel safe. As humans we crave the feeling and we seek it out. No matter where we go, we trust those with whom we share common values or beliefs.
The Harley Davidson company is a great example of this. Through the HOGS (the owner groups), the riders WHYs truly align to that of the company to the extent that, like Sneetches, many go for permanent body art, tattooing the company logo on their arms (or other body parts!).
Our natural need to belong also makes us good at spotting things that don’t belong. It’s a sense we get. A feeling. Something deep inside us, something we can’t put into words. It allows us to feel how some things just fit and some things just don’t. For example, Dell selling mp3 players just doesn’t feel right because Dell defines itself as a computer company, so the only things that belong are computers.
We are drawn to leaders and organisations that make us feel like we belong. To make us feel special, safe and not alone is part of what gives them the ability to inspire us.
Lesson 6: Verbalise your values
Once you know WHY you do what you do, the question becomes HOW will you do it?
Begin by asking yourself this question: What are the values or principles that will guide how to bring your cause to life?
How we do things and, more importantly, having the discipline to hold our organisation and our employees accountable to the chosen guiding principles, enhances our ability to work to our natural strengths.
But we don’t make this easy.
We remind ourselves of our values by writing them on the wall … as nouns. Integrity. Honesty. Innovation. Communication. The problem is nouns are not actionable. They are things. You can’t build systems or develop incentives around those things. It’s nearly impossible to hold people accountable to nouns.
If your WHYs and their WHY correspond, then they will see your products and services as tangible ways to prove what they believe. When WHY, HOW, and WHAT are in balance, authenticity is achieved and the buyer feels fulfilled.
Bringing it together:
A company is a culture. A group of people brought together around a common set of values and beliefs. It’s not products or services that bind a company together. It’s not size and might that make a company strong, it’s the culture—a strong sense of beliefs and values that everyone, from the CEO to the receptionist, all share.
When people inside the company know why they come to work, people outside the company are more likely to understand why the company is special. In these organisations, from the management down, no one sees themselves as any more or any less than anyone else. They all need each other.
Great organisations become great because the people inside the organisation feel protected. The strong sense of culture creates a sense of belonging and acts like a net. People come to work knowing that their bosses, colleagues and the organisation as a whole will look out for them. This results in reciprocal behaviour.Â

The role of a leader is not to come up with all of the great ideas. The role of a leader is to create an environment in which great ideas can happen.
The role of a leader to be charismatic and inspirational because while energy excites, charisma inspires. Energy is easy to see, easy to measure and easy to copy.
Charisma is hard to define, near impossible to measure and too elusive to copy. Charisma has nothing to do with energy; it comes from a clarity of WHY.Â
Charisma comes from commitment to an ideal bigger than yourself. Energy can always be injected into an organisation to motivate people to do things. Bonuses, promotions, other carrots and even a few sticks can get people to work harder, for sure, but the gains are, like all manipulations, short-lived.
Great leaders start from WHY, have an inspirational story to tell, bring others who share their belief together and through HOW and WHAT, help individuals fulfill their own WHYs.
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Start With Why
Proof:
This playbook is inspired by “Start With Why” by Simon Sinek. Simon Sinek is a renowned author, motivational speaker, and organisational consultant known for his concept of “The Golden Circle,” which explores the importance of understanding the “why” behind our actions and decisions.
Principle:
“Start With Why” emphasises that great leaders and organisations begin by identifying their core purpose or belief, the reason why they do what they do. This central “why” inspires and drives them, creating a sense of purpose that motivates and aligns their actions. By clearly articulating this “why,” leaders can foster greater trust, loyalty, and engagement among their followers. This principle not only clarifies the vision but also guides decision-making, innovation, and the overall direction of the organisation.
Promise:
Embracing the “Start With Why” principle promises to transform your leadership approach by providing a clear sense of purpose and direction. This will lead to increased motivation, engagement, and loyalty among your team members. By consistently communicating your “why,” you will inspire others to join your cause and work towards common goals with passion and commitment. Ultimately, this approach will drive sustained success and fulfillment for both you and your organisation.
Playbook:
1. IDENTIFY YOUR WHY: Reflect on your core beliefs and values to determine the fundamental purpose behind your actions. For instance, think about what truly drives you to get up every morning and do what you do.
Application:
- Personal Reflection: Spend time journaling about your passions and what you believe in.
- Seek Feedback: Ask close colleagues or friends what they perceive as your core motivations.
- Core Values Exercise: List your top five values and consider how they connect to your professional and personal life.
2. ARTICULATE YOUR WHY: Clearly express your “why” in a simple, compelling statement. This could be something like, “I believe in empowering others to achieve their full potential.”
Application:
- Craft a Statement: Write a concise “why” statement that captures your core purpose.
- Test It: Share your statement with trusted peers and get their feedback.
- Refine It: Iterate on your statement until it resonates deeply with you and others.
3. COMMUNICATE YOUR WHY: Regularly share your “why” with your team and stakeholders. Use it to inspire and guide your interactions and decisions.
Application:
- Team Meetings: Start team meetings by reiterating your “why” and how it relates to current projects.
- Public Speaking: Include your “why” in speeches and presentations.
- Internal Communications: Embed your “why” in internal communications, like emails and newsletters.
4. ALIGN ACTIONS WITH YOUR WHY: Ensure that your actions and decisions consistently reflect your “why.” This might mean prioritising projects that align with your core purpose.
Application:
- Decision Checklist: Create a checklist to evaluate whether potential actions align with your “why.”
- Prioritise Projects: Focus on initiatives that strongly connect with your purpose.
- Evaluate Progress: Regularly review your activities to ensure they remain aligned with your “why.”
5. INSPIRE OTHERS WITH YOUR WHY: Encourage your team to discover and articulate their own “why.” Support them in aligning their personal goals with the organisation’s purpose.
Application:
- Workshops: Conduct workshops to help team members identify their own “why.”
- One-on-One Discussions: Have regular one-on-one conversations about their personal goals and how they connect to the team’s “why.”
- Goal Setting: Assist team members in setting goals that align with their “why.”
6. CREATE A CULTURE OF WHY: Foster an environment where everyone is encouraged to think about and act on their “why.” This could involve recognising and celebrating actions that align with the organisation’s purpose.
Application:
- Recognition Programs: Implement a program to recognise and reward alignment with the organisation’s “why.”
- Cultural Norms: Embed the “why” in the company’s cultural norms and practices.
- Leadership Training: Train leaders to consistently communicate and act on the “why.”
7. EVALUATE AND ADJUST: Regularly assess how well your actions and outcomes align with your “why” and make adjustments as needed. This can help keep your purpose at the forefront.
Application:
- Regular Reviews: Schedule regular reviews of your goals and activities in relation to your “why.”
- Feedback Loops: Establish feedback mechanisms to gather input on how well you’re living your “why.”
- Continuous Improvement: Be open to refining your “why” as you grow and evolve.
8. SHARE SUCCESS STORIES: Highlight and share stories of how your “why” has positively impacted your team and organisation. This can help reinforce the importance of your purpose.
Application:
- Storytelling Sessions: Hold sessions where team members share stories of success linked to the “why.”
- Case Studies: Develop case studies that illustrate the impact of your “why.”
- Celebrate Milestones: Celebrate milestones that reflect the fulfilment of your “why.”
Reflective Questions:
CURRENT STATE:
1. What is my current understanding of my “why,” and how consistently do I communicate it to my team?
2. How aligned are my daily actions and decisions with my core purpose?
APPLICATION PROOF:
1. Can I provide a recent example where my “why” guided a significant decision or action?
2. How have I supported my team members in discovering and articulating their own “why”?
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